ok, your ex is now married...what a lame:) ......no matter how in love you guys were, you obviously weren't the one. and although it's gonna be very hard, you gotta let him know you're fine with that. use this as an opportunity to mature and grow your respect for yourself (along with you ex and his union). time to grow and be accountable to the laws of maturity and respect. being a slut jank...totally ushy. (just happened to be listening to vintage destiny child "get on the bus", hotness, kinda goes with this post...go listen, after you read of course). time to be accountable to the laws of maturity and respect kiddies, instead of doing what you want disregarding after effects.
ok, if you wanna be respected, follow directions:
1. no calling/texting or responding to calls/texts after 8p.m. say all you have to say during daylight hours because keep it real, it's something about night time/darkness that brings out a different side in people...kinda like wy clubs and parties are always dimly lit.
2. easy on the rendezvous. naturally, you dont wanna not ever see each other again (so it's gonna 97% be some meeting goings on). i mean, marriage sometimes doesnt automatically erase feelings for other people. but honestly, all that still seeing each other stuff is risky business (and kinda disrespectful to the wife). and the potential of "something happening " (whatever "something" is, usually non-platonic) is higher if you keep seeing each other. keep your respect and chill out, remember, you weren't worthy to be wife, so chill.
3. accept the marriage and move on, which will in turn decrease the commuication to a less frequent, more respectable level. hopefully by now you'e accepted not being the one, so you have more time to mature, remember and stick to your "the one" list, or revise it, and with time, he'll turn up...pinky promise.
ok, if you wanna be respected, follow directions:
1. no calling/texting or responding to calls/texts after 8p.m. say all you have to say during daylight hours because keep it real, it's something about night time/darkness that brings out a different side in people...kinda like wy clubs and parties are always dimly lit.
2. easy on the rendezvous. naturally, you dont wanna not ever see each other again (so it's gonna 97% be some meeting goings on). i mean, marriage sometimes doesnt automatically erase feelings for other people. but honestly, all that still seeing each other stuff is risky business (and kinda disrespectful to the wife). and the potential of "something happening " (whatever "something" is, usually non-platonic) is higher if you keep seeing each other. keep your respect and chill out, remember, you weren't worthy to be wife, so chill.
3. accept the marriage and move on, which will in turn decrease the commuication to a less frequent, more respectable level. hopefully by now you'e accepted not being the one, so you have more time to mature, remember and stick to your "the one" list, or revise it, and with time, he'll turn up...pinky promise.
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you are preaching to the choir girl....preaching to the choir. I just went through this situation and I'll just say it ended up with my ex and HIS WIFE coming up to my job. :/
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